GIRL why have I never come across your blog until now?! I'm a SB in alabama too I didn't think I would find anybody else who lives here! (Actually I'm from TN but I go to school in AL) if you don't mind me asking what city do you live in?:)
AWW yah!! I live in the Huntsville area..you?
Well, what booksvwould you recommend besides to obvious (ginie sayles, baje fletcher, leidra lawson, robert greene) stuff?
I also enjoyed Why Men Love Bitches and I read some body language books, the other authors you listed have been insightful as well. I watch old romance movies too, I like how women carried themselves back then. Just read, read and read and apply what you learned.
Oh and since you plan on free styling, you might come across some older women who will encourage you…befriend them! I have two friends that I met out and they are super resourceful :)
How long does it take to actually get cash from a pot you met freestyling? is he handing out cash on the first date or do you wait until a bond is established?
Every man is different. I don’t ask for it up front. I personally always use school at first, like I would say something about college books being so expensive and see if he offers up.
Unless you tell them up front that you want a sugar daddy and he agrees to it, then this can be a long process. It just varies. I’ve read alot of books on this too, you can find some cheap ones on amazon and balleralert.com is also a good source :)
Can you breakdown frestyling? Do you have business cards and hand them out or what? How do you get a regular man that you met in real life to agree to an arrangement?
Freestyling - That’s what girls call meeting POTs in real life? right.
Ok. Well thats my preferred method of choice and actually what has worked best for me. I tend to go to lounges, bars, parties and events where rich men are sure to be at. I make sure that I look up to par and play up my best assets, smile and look approachable and PUT AWAY YOUR CELLPHONE. I tend to go alone or bring only one friend. I have a habit of sniffing out money, but another way to find out possible candidates is to eavesdrop and find out who’s who. The main thing to do is be confident, flirty, mature and intriguing.
As far as allowances it doesn’t work the same way as it does on the sites. I wouldn’t advise asking someone flat out for a set allowance either in the beginning. The men that I have met out and about usually ask is there anything they can help you out with or is there anything you need, etc. Its kinda play by ear.
And I have thought about getting business cards, but honestly I don’t want any of my SD knowing too much about my real life.